Ask Shelli: Volume 1!!
Hello Everyone!
My name is Shelli, and as you might guess this is my first blog…ever! Not exactly sure what I am doing but I’m going to wing it anyway. I guess the best place to start is to give you a little history about myself.
To begin I wear a LOT of hats in life. Like most moms I am completely twisted and pulled in many different directions. I am to begin a mother of 3 amazing kids (I know we all say that…but they really are). My kids are very close in age but for the next month I don’t get to look completely insane and tell you that my kids ages are 21, 21, and 19. Until my baby turns 20 March 2nd. Then the head scratching begins when I say my kids are 21, 21, and 20! So yes I did have twins (boy & girl) and a 3rd just 15 months later. They are a dancer/business owner, a senior at Chapman University (Graduating with top honors), and a sophomore at Idaho State who also plays football for them!
But aside from a mother of 3, I am a wife of 23 years, a business owner for the last 20 years, the matriarch of my entire family. I am also a grantie (yes that’s spelled right) of 5 nieces, mother to my 4 dogs, 3 cats, 3 bothers, 1 sister and sometimes my Husband & my father. I am also partner in a dance wear business with my daughter, and the PR & Special Projects Manager for Discount Dance Supply.
So what does that have to do with my knowing anything about dance and dancers? Well, I guess it begins with my daughter. She’s an amazing young woman who has navigated her way thru the maze of being a student, a competitor, a protégé, a professional, a teacher, a judge, and a business owner…all in the world of dance. And I have been there with her every step of the way. And even now that she is walking her own path and needing her mommy less and less in her journey, I find myself back head first into the dance world with DDS! So without a conscious effort dance and the dance world have been a very big part of my life for 15 years now.
What I would like to accomplish with blogging is to talk. About every possible subject I can either speak with relative confidence about. I know that as a mother of a dancer, there were so many moments that I needed a friend…a confidant…an advisor who knew the road I was on. Hopefully I can provide some of this to you. I have been thru it all as a mother of a ballerina and now out there watching it all from different angles in the business world of dance and competitions. So feel free to comment back to me…ask questions…give me your thoughts.
I want to leave you with some questions to begin the conversation….
What’s your goal in dance with your child? What motivates you? What motivates them?